Helping your partner during IVF1
Some handy tips that will help keep you both feeling in control
Although fertility treatment – with all the injections, the procedures, and the hormone fluctuations – can physically impact the female partner more than the male, it’s important to realise that the emotional impact can be more equal. Here are some tips to help keep things manageable.
It may seem simple, but it’s important to let your other half know you’re there for them. Of course, they might not always want to talk, but it’ll be reassuring to know you’re happy to listen if and when they want to express their feelings or concerns.
Whenever you can, consider joining your partner during appointments at the fertility clinic. It’ll mean you’re more informed and better able to understand what’s going on.
The fertility hormone treatments can make some women feel completely differently to how they normally are. Although it’s difficult to imagine what she’s feeling like, try to be understanding if you can and remember her mood changes will be temporary. Doing so can help prevent you from getting worked up the wrong way.
References:
1. National Institute of Health and Care Excellence. Fertility problems: Assessment and treatment [CG156].
Available: https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg156 (last accessed on April 2021).
UK-RMMH-2100023 | Date of preparation: June 2021
